Kdo nosi odgovornost? Ob tem stavku navadno pride \u0161e tisti kazalec, s katerim obi\u010dajno ka\u017eemo na druge. Kdo nosi odgovornost za to, kako se po\u010dutim, da nekaj ni narejeno, da stvari ne grejo po planu? Predvsem pa takrat, ko je potrebno najti krivca za neko stanje<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Odgovornost se sli\u0161i blazno te\u017eka, v\u010dasih ko opazujem svet okoli sebe, bi rekla, da nam odgovornost obi\u010dajno predstavlja breme. Tudi meni ga v\u010dasih je, dokler nisem nanjo za\u010dela gledati iz druge perspektive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kaj pravzaprav je odgovornost? Verjetno je razlag toliko kot je ljudi na svetu. Ene so si med seboj na las podobne, druge kot no\u010d in dan razli\u010dne. Z odgovornostjo imamo vsak svojo izku\u0161njo in verjetno smo se \u017ee zelo zgodaj v svojih \u017eivljenjih sre\u010dali z njo. Vendar vpra\u0161anje je, kaj smo se o njej nau\u010dili? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Moja prva res prva odgovornost, katere se spomnim so bile \u0161olske ocene. \u010ceprav navzven ni delovalo, ampak so mi predstavljale nenormalno breme. Zakaj, ja ker mene je takrat zanimalo vse kaj drugega kot pa to kak\u0161ne ocene imam. Vendar ocene so pomembne, ker so moji star\u0161i verjeli, da zunanjemu svetu povedo kak\u0161na je na\u0161a lastna vrednost. Navsezadnje dolo\u010dajo na\u0161 \u0161olski uspeh, ki nam odpira vrata svet. Meni pa so povedale, da so mojim star\u0161em bolj pomembne od mene in zato me je odgovornosti, ki je tako prihajala z njimi res bremenila.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Moj pogled na odgovornost se je popolnoma spremenil 30 let kasneje. Kot \u0161krat se je prikradlo v mojo zavest zavedanje, da je moje \u017eivljenje moja odgovornost, predvsem pa moja izbira. Ker kak\u0161ne barve bo moje \u017eivljenje je moja odlo\u010ditev. in ko sta se odlo\u010ditev in odgovornost prijeli za roko, je odgovornost postala neznansko zanimiva, v\u010dasih celo zabavna in ni\u010d ve\u010d tako stroga, kot sem jo poznala do tedaj. Kar naenkrat je odgovornost prinesla ogromno svobode. Svobode, da se v \u017eivljenju odlo\u010dam kdo sem. No, to se je kasneje izkazalo, da itak v \u017eivljenju od vedno vemo kdo smo in da se v resnici odlo\u010damo to, da v \u017eivljenju smo to kar smo in ne to kar nam govorijo drugi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
In ravno v tem, v prevzemanju odgovornosti, da \u017eivimo sebe, se te\u017ea odgovornosti preobrazi v svobodo odgovornosti.
In naslednji\u010d namesto, da i\u0161\u010demo odgovornega, se raje vpra\u0161ajmo: Kako se izra\u017ea moja odgovornost do sebe v tem trenutku?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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