Kaj si bodo mislili drugi? Zakaj nam je to tako pomembno in zakaj nam je vseeno, kaj si mislimo o sebi? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Vpra\u0161anja, ki zaposlujejo mojo glavo. To prvo sem ve\u010dkrat sli\u0161ala in jo z leti tudi ponotranjila, udoma\u010dila in ves \u010das negovala. Karkoli sem si \u017eelela po\u010deti, preizkusiti, se aktivirati, je prijadrala v mojo zavest in me ve\u010dkrat tudi ustavila. Ustavila mojo ustvarjalnost, izra\u017eanje, deljenje sebe, ker res, kaj bodo drugi mislili?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Kaj sploh je v ozadju tega stavka? To raziskujem \u017ee kar nekaj \u010dasa. Sama zase lahko re\u010dem, da gre, kaj bodo mislili drugi, z roko v roki z mojo nesamozavestjo, nezavedanjem lastne vrednosti. Kako sploh prepoznam svojo vrednost? Vpra\u0161anje, ki buri duhove in izziva moj ego k uporu in ugotavljanju, kako se pretentati. Namre\u010d zakaj le bi verjela, da nisem vredna? (nisem vredna, da pride\u0161 k meni, reci le besedo in ozdravljena bo moja du\u0161a).<\/p>\n\n\n\n
V poplavi nasvetov, kako zjutraj pred ogledalom ponavljati vredna sem, rada se imam in drugih manifestacij, ni nujno, da temu podzavestno tudi verjamem. Ponovno, kako se zavedam lastne vrednosti? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
V pomo\u010d pri poznavanju lastne vrednosti sem spoznala, da je zelo podporno, da poznam svoje vrednote. Vrednote, na katere se vedno znova oprem. So moje in delujem po njih. Podpirajo me pri odlo\u010ditvah, sploh tistih, ko ne vem kako bi se obrnila. Verjetno ni naklju\u010dje, da si besedi vrednost in vrednota delita isti koren. Odkar poznam svoje vrednote, so moje odlo\u010ditve postale jasnej\u0161e in ko se odlo\u010dam, da delujem po njih, takrat so moje odlo\u010ditve tudi lahkotnej\u0161e. Tu kaj si bo kdo mislil odpade. Prav tako mi je dalo razmi\u0161ljati naslednje razmi\u0161ljanje: Vsak ima svoj model sveta in skupnost, ki \u017eivi ali deluje skupaj ima v dolo\u010denih vrednotah enak pogled na svet. Ko tako eden (ti) \u017eeli nekaj druga\u010de (\u010deprav bolj\u0161e) za\u010dnejo ostali braniti svoj nespremenjen svet, saj se sami ne \u017eelijo spreminjati. In ker jih je ve\u010d in ker so na\u0161i bli\u017enji nam je njihovo mnenje pomembno, nas lahko spravi v dvome in nas upo\u010dasnjuje ali celo odvrne… (Simon Megli\u010d, Marketin\u0161ka kavica<\/a> – priporo\u010dam ogled)<\/p>\n\n\n\n Pri tem se zavedam, da moje vrednote niso tvoje in prav tako niso njene oziroma njegove. So lahko podobne, vendar do pike enake ne bi rekla. Ko delujem po svojih vrednotah, slikam jasno sliko sama sebi kdo sem in to sliko zrcalim na okolico. Seveda moje delovanje ne ustreza vsem. Seveda se kdo ne strinja z menoj. Ampak ali to pomeni, da sem zato slab \u010dlovek? Ali res mnenja drugih dolo\u010dajo mojo vrednost in pomembnost mojih vrednot? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ko se zavedam svojih vrednot, vrednosti in delujemo po njih, ali so takrat samo mnenja drugih \u0161e pomembna do te mere, da oblikujejo na\u0161e \u017eivljenje? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Naj mnenja drugih ne bodo tih ubijalec tvojih sanj in naj ne definirajo kako se po\u010duti\u0161.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Kaj si bodo mislili drugi? 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