Vsaka situacija ima toliko pogledov nanjo, kot jo zazna \u0161tevilo o\u010di, ki jo opazujejo. In moje o\u010di te iste situacije ne vidijo na tak na\u010din, kot jo vidijo tvoje ali njegove ali njene, ampak jo vidijo skozi moje izku\u0161nje, moja ob\u010dutenja, kako jaz do\u017eivljam situacijo, oziroma svet okoli sebe (okolico), kak\u0161ne izku\u0161nje imam, kak\u0161na \u010dustva in ob\u010dutke sem razvila na podlagi teh svojih izku\u0161enj, ki sem jih pridobivala z opazovanjem oziroma do\u017eivljanjem.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
In \u010dustva so edinstven kompas, ki navigira na\u0161e \u017eivljenje. \u010custva nam dajejo prijetne in manj prijetne ob\u010dutke. V prijetnih \u017eivimo, z manj prijetnimi rastemo. Vse dokler se ne vme\u0161a tisti na\u0161 notranji glasek, ki ga sama imenujem um, mnogi pa ego, ki nam prigovarja kaj si zaslu\u017eimo in \u010desa ne. \u010cesa smo vredni. Sama sem bila ve\u010dino \u017eivljenja prepri\u010dana, da ego napihuje, da ti ego prigovarja, kako super dober si. Da so plod ega superlativi vseh vrst, ki obstajajo pod soncem. Pa sem se odlo\u010dila spoznati svoj ego in kaj kmalu ugotovila, da gre ego lahko tudi v super-ne-relative in da me lahko tudi zelo hitro potepta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Moj ego deluje na na\u010din, da mi prigovarja nisi dovolj dobra, ne zaslu\u017ei\u0161 si in nisi vredna, da se ti v \u017eivljenju dogaja dobro, ker \u010de se mi bo dogajalo dobro, \u010de si dovolim biti vredna in si dovolim zaslu\u017eiti prijetno, potem… Potem on izgubi mo\u010d. Ob zavedanju svoje vrednosti on izgubi svojo mo\u010d nad mano. Takrat se moje misli ne zapenjajo in spodtikajo ob to, kako sem to rekla in kako je to, kar se naredila, izpadlo pred drugimi. Takrat me ego ne mora grajati in obsojati, da nisem dovolj dobra in kaj si bodo za vraga mislili drugi. Ob zavedanju in sprejemanju lastne vrednosti stojim za svojimi pogledi, svojimi izku\u0161njami in \u010dustvi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
In ko stojim za svojimi pogledi, \u010dustvi, izku\u0161njami, se zavedam lastne vrednosti, takrat sprejemam svoja ob\u010dutja, prijetna in manj prijetna. Sprejemam jih taka kot so, v\u010dasih super pozitivna, naslednji\u010d prekleto bole\u010da. Moja. In ko jih \u017eivim in uporabljam kot kompas, ki navigira moje \u017eivljenje, mi prijetna ka\u017eejo smer, neprijetna prilo\u017enosti za rast in z njimi raste tudi moja vrednost. Postajam \u010dlovek, vreden \u017eivljenja.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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